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"No one cares about you" does not mean that no one thinks they care about you, but rather that everyone lacks the "reason" and "feasibility" to truly care for someone. https://t.me/telebookstall/2071 The "reason" is that "caring" is not unconditional, but conditional. Caring secretly in one's heart does not count as caring because it is meaningless to others. "Caring" must act upon another person to be called "caring." > See: [Observable Person](https://telebookstall.xlog.app/observable-person) [telegraph](https://telegra.ph/observable-person-03-12) If we want to have an impact on a group, we must take on an identity disguise. Even if this disguise does not fit well, we must wear it. Because the disguise is not created by the individual, nor does it exist for the individual. If I am just a delivery person, my role in relation to you is very clear: to deliver food from the merchant to you as the consumer. As for the fact that I secretly practice the Sunflower Scripture at home every day, it has no impact on this society. Consumers will not give me bad or good reviews because I secretly practice the Sunflower Scripture. And the group does not give me a disguise as a practitioner of the Sunflower Scripture because of this. Therefore, the individual does not necessarily have an impact on the group; only the observable person has an impact on the group. Thus, caring is not a personal matter; it requires the cooperation of at least two people, such as acceptance. The condition for caring is a cooperative relationship in life relationships. Both parties must obtain mutually recognized benefits, which requires energy and may not be easily obtained. > See: [Life Relationships | Cooperative Relationships](https://telebookstall.xlog.app/life-relationship#user-content-%E5%90%88%E4%BD%9C%E5%85%B3%E7%B3%BB) However, among different life forms, there is generally a predatory relationship, followed by a coexistence relationship. As for higher-level cooperation, it is too difficult. Except for a few life forms that have evolved over a long time, the vast majority of life can only cooperate and coexist if they possess sufficient intelligence. That said, if cooperation for mutual benefit cannot be achieved, the coexistence relationship is unstable and can easily evolve into a predatory relationship due to changes in the environment or resource scarcity. "Feasibility" means that a person has the ability and possibility to care for another person. Even if both parties have reasons to care, this caring cannot be highly comprehensive; others cannot know your inner feelings unless you express them (of course, others can also know, but it requires technology or future technology). At a deeper level, this is individualism; our feelings about the world must be presented by ourselves. > See: [Individualism | Individual and Individual](https://telebookstall.xlog.app/individualism#user-content-%E4%B8%AA%E4%BD%93%E4%B8%8E%E4%B8%AA%E4%BD%93) Therefore, [mutual support is not as good as forgetting each other in the world](https://telebookstall.xlog.app/firstlove-sex-Castration). The reason for all this is that there are two insurmountable gaps between individuals. If we want to connect with each other, we can only rely on the bridge of regularity. Even the thinnest bridge of regularity requires material support. A stable relationship inevitably requires the establishment of more bridges of regularity, but this stability is not what many people desire. What they want is affection within the individual, and apart from the self, there is nothingness within the individual. This is [the heartless person](https://telebookstall.xlog.app/heartless-person#%E6%97%A0%E6%83%85%E7%9A%84%E4%BA%BA). So, "as for value, I will not fill it in here."